Anger is a normal, healthy response to many unfavorable circumstances, but it's not a particularly accepted emotion in our society. That's because so many people mishandle their anger, taking it out on the wrong people or expressing it in unhealthy ways. However, mental health experts say that in some cases, anger is not only normal but also necessary. The key is how you channel your anger so you can process it and let it go on your terms rather than projecting it onto others or stuffing it deep inside, where it can cause even more harm.

"Don't just look at anger as a hurdle to jump over," says Michael Laauwe, a certified life coach and host of the podcast Positive Thinking Mind. "See it as a bridge—a bridge that, when crossed with awareness and intention, can lead to growth, understanding, and perhaps, a happier, more fulfilled life."

Wondering how you can begin managing your anger for a healthier outlook and happier life? Read on to learn five expert-endorsed ways to channel your anger starting now.

1. Work it out in your workout 🏋️‍♂️

Nearly every mental health expert emphasizes the importance of physical exercise as a way to channel anger.

"There's a kind of catharsis in movement," explains R.Y. Langham, PhD, a psychologist with Impulse Therapy. "Whether it's a brisk walk, a swim, or a more intense workout, these activities not only help dissipate the adrenaline surge that accompanies anger but also release endorphins, our body's natural mood elevators."

Louise Hateley, a physiotherapist and director of In Stride Health Clinic, says she recommends this approach to many clients. "You can browse for free fitness videos online or you can do your own thing, but if you're looking for a way to release your anger, be sure to challenge yourself and give it your all when you're working out. Even while it may make you feel stupid, yelling or grunting when you exercise has really been shown to help you exert more energy."

2. Try breathwork and meditation 🧘‍♀️

Another way to channel your anger and become happier is through breathwork and meditation. "I cannot emphasize enough the importance of deep breathing and meditation," says Langham. "The act of focusing on one's breath, grounding oneself in the present moment, can often quell the storm of emotions raging within. Over time, it creates a buffer, allowing us to gain perspective and react more thoughtfully rather than impulsively."

Pauline Yeghnazar Peck, MMFT, PhD, a licensed psychologist and certified trauma-informed yoga teacher, recommends a few breathing exercises in particular: square breathing, double inhale breathing, or humming breath. If you need more guidance, you can also follow one of many anger-focused guided breathing exercises available online.

3. Express your anger creatively 🎨

Expressing your anger through creative outlets can also help you heal. "I've observed that many find solace in channeling their anger through creative expression. The canvas of art, the rhythm of music, or the depth of written prose can be mirrors reflecting our innermost feelings, allowing us to articulate them in ways words sometimes fail to," says Langham.

The psychologist says that journaling can be an especially powerful creative outlet for those struggling with feelings of anger. "Journaling provides an intimate space for reflection, enabling us to dissect the nuances of our emotions, sometimes even leading to profound realizations about their root causes," she says.

4. Let it spark a conversation 💬

Sometimes, anger is a sign that something needs to change or be better understood—and neither is typically done in isolation. That's why Langham suggests channeling your anger into a productive conversation that will help you explore your feelings and decide the next steps.

"While introspection has its merits, sometimes the balm we need is communication. Speaking about what's bothering us to a trusted friend, a family member, or even a therapist can often shine a new light on our challenges. When discussing your feelings, try to approach the conversation with an intent to both understand and be understood. It's not about venting but about seeking clarity," she tells Best Life.

5. Use it to dig deep 🔍

Shylah Blatt, LMFT, a therapist with East Bay Counseling, says it's also important to get curious about your anger. "As odd as it sounds, approaching your anger with curiosity and openness can go a long way in channeling anger. All feelings want to be seen and acknowledged, and anger is no exception. Anger can often tell us when something is not right or [if] there is some injustice going on, and it is only by curiously wondering where the anger is coming from that we can figure out what it is trying to tell us," she tells Best Life.

Langham agrees that this type of reflection can transform your relationship with anger. "I'd encourage you to delve into cognitive restructuring, a therapeutic technique where we transform our patterns of thinking about anger triggers. It's about shifting from a place of reactivity to one of reflection, and while it might sound complicated, it's often about those small affirmations and re-framings that we tell ourselves in heated moments," she says.

By incorporating these methods, you can manage your anger constructively, leading to a healthier outlook and a happier life.